Hey, sweet families! If you’re reading this, chances are you’re expecting a little one (congratulations!), and you’re also wrangling the joyful chaos of a toddler. And now you’re wondering: “How is a newborn session going to work with my wild, curious, unpredictable little tornado in tow?”
First of all, you are not alone.
I hear this all the time, and as a mom and photographer who specializes in newborn and family sessions, let me ease your mind:
At Danielle Ashley Photography, I never expect toddlers to be “perfect.” In fact, I love capturing children just as they are, playful, silly, shy, energetic, curious… and yes, even the ones having a bit of a day.
✨ My Studio Is Built With Little Ones in Mind
My cozy studio, just north of the square, is designed for comfort for babies and big siblings. I’ve got:
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A stash of snacks for hungry little bellies.
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Toys and books to keep curious hands busy.
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A relaxed, judgment-free vibe where your kids can be themselves.
And if your toddler needs a change of scenery? Feel free to bring along Dad, Grandma, or a helper. They’re welcome to take your little one for a walk to the square or the local library, just down the road. Sometimes a short break is all they need.
💛 Here’s the Truth:
Some of my favorite photos have come from moments when a toddler wasn’t “cooperating” because those real, unscripted expressions are what tell your family’s story.
Now let’s talk about making the session as stress-free as possible, so you can enjoy your littles just as they are.
✨ 5 Tips for a Fun, Low-Stress Newborn Session with Your Toddler
1. Set Expectations… Low and Loving
Let your toddler know they’ll be helping with baby’s photo day, but don’t overhype it. Keep things light and pressure-free. We’ll go with the flow.
2. Bring Their Favorites
Whether it’s a snack, toy, or lovey bringing their favorite comfort items can make a huge difference. Bonus: a treat afterward is a great incentive!
3. Let Them Take Breaks
We’ll start with family and sibling photos, then they can explore the studio or head out for a bit. This keeps things smooth for everyone (and gives you time to focus on baby!).
4. Trust the Process
I’ve worked with so many toddlers and I promise, I’ve seen it all. Meltdowns, wiggles, giggles, shy snuggles—it’s all part of the magic.
5. Celebrate the Chaos
That wild grin, the pouty lip, the spontaneous hug? Those are the real moments you’ll treasure. Let’s celebrate your child’s personality exactly as it is.
You’re Doing a Great Job—Let Me Capture That
Parenting is messy, beautiful, unpredictable and deeply worth remembering.
When you step into my studio, my goal is to make you feel seen, supported, and celebrated.
So take a deep breath, mama. You don’t need perfect kids, perfect outfits, or perfect behavior. You just need to show up and I’ll take care of the rest.
With love and patience,
Danielle
