Handing your baby over to someone else for the first time? It can feel like handing over your whole heart.
If you’re anything like me, the thought of leaving your baby with someone else can feel overwhelming. Daycare isn’t just about finding a building with toys and snacks. It’s about finding people you can trust completely, even when you’re not around.
Here in Cleveland, we’re lucky to have a wide range of childcare options, from large centers to smaller in-home daycares. But narrowing it down to the one that feels right? That can feel like an emotional rollercoaster, especially if you’re navigating anxiety, trauma, or just plain overwhelm.
My Story: Why Daycare Was So Hard for Me
I’ll be honest: I had a really hard time even thinking about childcare in the beginning.
After my first baby, who was born after a traumatic birth (I share more about that in another blog post), I developed postpartum anxiety. Anytime my husband left the house, I’d spiral into a panic, convinced something terrible would happen. I knew it was irrational but I couldn’t control it.
Eventually, I sought help from a doctor, and that step was the beginning of my healing journey. Through therapy, community, and time, things got better. But that experience forever changed how I approached decisions around my child’s care.
Because of that, I understand on a deep, personal level just how much trust it takes to hand your child over to someone else. We’ve been fortunate to lean on family, my husband’s schedule, and church friends for childcare, but I know not every parent has that option, and many of us need to explore daycares in Cleveland.
If that’s you, I want to walk through some questions and tips that helped me (and other moms I’ve connected with) feel more confident.
Start With Safety and Trust
The first question on every parent’s mind: Is my child going to be safe here? When you visit a Cleveland daycare, pay attention to how children are signed in and out, who has access to the building, whether they practice fire and tornado drills, and what the emergency procedures are.
But also trust your gut. Does the environment feel warm, clean, and attentive? Sometimes our instincts pick up on things that a brochure never will.
Pay Attention to Ratios and Care
Ohio has specific teacher-to-child ratios (find them here), but the best daycares often keep groups even smaller. Why does this matter? Because it means more eyes on your child, more conversations, and more one-on-one attention.
When you walk through, look around the classroom. Do kids seem engaged? Do the teachers know their names? Those little details can tell you more than numbers ever will.
Ask About the People, Not Just the Policies
Every parent worries about qualifications — and you should. CPR and first-aid certification, training in early childhood development, and experience with different age groups all matter. But beyond the certificates on the wall, notice how the staff interacts with kids. Do they kneel down to their level? Do they smile and laugh with them? Do they seem genuinely patient?
For me, that personal connection means more than anything.
What Does a Day Really Look Like?
Most daycares in Cleveland will give you a printed schedule, but it’s okay to dig deeper. Ask:
- How much of the day is structured versus free play?
- Do they go outside often (yes, even in the colder months)?
- How do they handle naps and transitions?
Think about your child’s personality. Some thrive on structure, others need flexibility. The right daycare should meet your child where they are, not force them into a mold.
Don’t Forget Meals and Allergies
If your child has allergies or dietary restrictions, this is a big deal. Some daycares provide meals, while others ask parents to pack lunch. Ask how they prevent cross-contamination and what their snack policies look like.
It sounds small, but you’ll feel a lot more peace of mind knowing your child’s food needs are taken seriously.
How Will They Keep You in the Loop?
One of the biggest questions I hear from moms is: Will I know what’s happening during the day?
Many daycares now use apps to share updates, pictures, and notes about naps and meals. Others give written reports or chat with you at pickup. Decide what communication style works best for you, but make sure it’s consistent.
As a mom who struggled with postpartum anxiety, I know how much reassurance those little updates can bring.
Discipline, Boundaries, and Gentle Guidance
Every child has hard moments, tantrums, biting, not wanting to share. How a daycare handles those moments matters. Look for a philosophy that’s clear, consistent, and focused on teaching rather than punishing.
When you visit, ask teachers how they handle conflict. Their answers will give you a picture of the environment your child will grow up in.
Ask Other Moms — Community Is Everything
One of the best tips I can give: ask other moms. Word of mouth in Cleveland is gold. Moms love to share their experiences, the good, the bad, and the real.
Check in with local Facebook groups, ask around in your church, or talk with homeschooling families. I personally run a moms-only Facebook group called Deeply Rooted Motherhood, and it’s a safe place to ask questions like this. You’ll find that moms genuinely want to help each other make the best choices for their kids.
Final Thoughts
Finding the right daycare in Cleveland isn’t just another to-do list item. It’s a decision that touches your heart, your schedule, and your sense of peace.
It’s okay to feel nervous. It’s okay to cry after a tour. It’s okay to change your mind. I’ve been there.
But here’s what I’ve learned: you know your child better than anyone else. When you walk into the right place, the one that feels safe, nurturing, and aligned with your values you’ll feel it in your bones.
So ask the questions. Take your time. Trust your gut. And know that you’re not alone in this journey.
